Psychic Love: When a reading reveals he’s an emotionally insecure man

February 21st, 2011

Woman in thought about relationshipPersonal Prophesy card readings are dead on in tems of revealing to us the genuine emotions of those in our lives, their personal motivations, what essentially makes them “tick.”

Especially in romantic relationships.

For instance, Maggie* has been involved with a man who holds himself back from sharing his deepest  feelings with her.  In the months that they’ve been steadily dating, he’s seemed to really enjoy her company and the intimacy they’ve come to share.  However, he hasn’t as yet communicated his feelings toward her.

Maggie has interpreted his reluctance to express himself openly to her to mean he apparently doesn’t care very much for her on a meaningful level.

“If he did, he would tell me, wouldn’t he?” she asked in her reading request.

Maggie’s reading not only addressed that question, it also provided a deep well of important intuitive information and guidance to draw from about this man’s innermost thoughts and feelings toward her.

Her cards revealed that he’s actually very much in love with her to the point where he wants to consider marrying her.  At the same time, he was also perceived to be wrestling with a significant amount of uncertainty about her and the realistic future of  this relationship.  This man, plainly speaking, doesn’t have a clue how to deal with his feelings or how to even begin to let her know how he feels without putting himself at serious risk of getting hurt.

Intuitively speaking, Maggie’s boyfriend sees her as a strong, independent woman who clearly has a mind of her own.  He knows she’s going places in her work and understands how intensely confident she is in her expectations to be successful.  All qualities he’s perceived to genuinely admire.   But they are also qualities that tend to intimidate and worry the heck out of him.

Even though this man is perceived to be aware that Maggie cares for him, he also knows that she faces the future with a sense of courage and boldness which could easily propel her right out of his life for good.  He’s never experienced that kind of fierce determination from any of his girlfriends in the past.  They were all basically submissive ‘do nothings’ who simply wanted to hook up with a guy and get married.  Now, here he is, in this amazing relationship with an amazing woman who possesses the power to crush him emotionally.

And that literally scares the bejesus out of this guy.

I know I’m going to lose her, the cards from his perspective in her reading insisted.  I don’t have what it takes to keep her happy, the cards indicated that he feared.  She’ll meet someone else in her drive for success and dump me, I saw he was convinced.  I’m better off not telling her how I feel so I don’t get hurt, was his personal mantra in her cards.

Crazy thinking, right?  She loves him and he loves her, but look who’s ready to run for the hills, emotionally trying to escape getting hurt.  Yup, none other than that big, strong testosterone carrier Maggie is involved with.

Intuitively speaking, men who harbor such insecurities about themselves or the relationships they’re in have a tendency to emotionally hold themselves back or even completely withdraw in an effort to prepare themselves for loss long before it ever has any potential to occur.  And they do so for no other reason than to try to insulate themselves from what they expect will be inevitable future pain.

When this is the case in readings for women like Maggie, I advise them to be open about their feelings to reassure these guys that what they feel is real and lasting, no matter what.  While Maggie had been cautiously holding herself in check to prevent giving too much of herself too soon, the cards were indicating that her boyfriend was interpreting her cautiousness as lack of committed feeling on her part for him.

She was urged in her reading to start revealing her feelings for him so that he would feel secure enough to do the same in return.

It’s up to those like Maggie in relationships like this to be willing to lead the way.

By feeling so sure of their feelings toward these men to say, “Hey, I love you,” every chance they get.   By reassuring these guys and showing them that love is always a strength in our lives and never weakness through loving them that much.

Bottom line, by making these men they love feel so happy and secure that the emotional running shoes they’ve been wearing end up outside in the dumpster – right where they belong.

*Name changed to ensure confidentiality


Psychic Visualization: Personal empowerment through the Two of Hearts

February 20th, 2011

eye radiant with visualizationA tremendous amount in Personal Prophesy readings deals with positive action and manifesting using the Law of Attraction.  Visualizations enable us to bring the potential perceived in readings closer to becoming reality within the framework of our lives.

This is especially true through the Two of Hearts – the one card in the deck characterizing meaningful personal fulfillment on all levels:  Love, career, happiness, and success.

This visualization is extremely simply but oh-so-powerful.  I urge you to give it a try!

What do you wish for…dream of….hope for…from the deepest part of your heart?

Maybe it’s a happy home and family….a terrific new job…a beautiful lasting marriage, better health, financial security, even just being able to finally feel at peace.

Right now, visualize yourself there, in that place, in that setting, feel it, experience it completely.

Focusing now completely on this wish, this hope, this dream…visualize yourself looking down at an oblong, multi-faceted shiny gold bar sitting at your feet.

Reach down and pick it up with both hands.

Now, visualize yourself pressing that bar to your chest as you transfer the pure intensity of that wish…that dream…all you hope for…into that gold bar.

Once you are literally holding what is most precious to your heart in that gold bar, draw in a slow, deep breath as you lift that bar with strong, determined arms up over your head into bright sunlight.

Visualize yourself looking up at that bar.  See the countless energy-filled shafts of sunlight bouncing brilliantly off the faceted sides of it.  Actually feel the bar glowing warm in your hands from the intense energy of that sunlight.

Now, envision yourself in that happy home and family or going about that great job, the joy of that marriage – whatever wish, hope or dream you put into that gold bar, envision it as if it was yours at that moment.

Mentally say to yourself – not “I hope this will happen for me,” but instead, “This will happen for me!

Speak these words to yourself so clearly and with such faith and belief that all doubt disappears from your mind.

In that instance, know from the deepest part of your heart that this wish, this hope, this dream is on its way to you.

Feel it, believe it!

Repeat this visualization daily.  Watch what happens as the future takes shape in your life over the course of the next 30 to 60 days.

Results for others using this powerful visualization have been amazing.

They will be for you, too!


A new Psychic Love Doctor reader for you: John Alan

February 14th, 2011

Psychic Love Doctor reader John AlanPlease meet John Alan – the latest addition to the PsychicLoveDoctor.com website.

He’s talented, educated and incredibly insightful!

John became a diviner as a result of years of powerful precognitive and insightful healing dreams as a child.

As he grew up, this insight became proof that guidance and assistance are available to us if only we ask.

John Alan is an active diviner with the Tarot, I Ching and channeling for over ten years now.

He’s also a certified and prolific practitioner of Personal Prophesy – the revolutionary method of perceiving the future from playing cards and changing it for the better that this website focuses on.

He’ll curl your toes with his astounding perceptions in readings, people.  Yes, he is that good!

His accomplishments include:

* Bilingual fluency in English and French

* Certified Reiki Master Practitioner

* Qualified in Tarot, I Ching, dreamwork, channeling

* Membership in Tarot Guild

* Love of helping others

Get to Know John Alan

To enable you to get better acquainted with our new Psychic Love Doctor, John Alan shares the following thoughts and insights with PLD blog visitors.

In your psychic studies, what have you learned in general?

In fact, the learning never stops.   And that is a fundamental lesson in psychic studies.

How does being a reader for others impact your life?

This is the part that I enjoy the most.  There is no greater feeling than to help someone and share in their personal/spiritual growth.  Every time I give a reading and witness how that person has experienced love, success or growth, I take true delight in knowing that more light has been brought into the world.

For people in troubling situations or relationships,  what are your thoughts/insights?

I believe that life is mostly suffering, with just enough beauty to keep us interested.  It is up to us to create our joy, from within as an antidote to life’s difficulty.  You are not born onto an isolated island! You are surrounded by others just like you, all who want to be happy.  Reach out for comfort, wisdom or help.

Any experiences from your own life that you could share in reference to your psychic studies?

Actually I have used my psychic impressions to guide me throughout my entire life, even in the face of what some would label as more rational or logical decision making. On several occasions, I have sensed the imminent passing on of a person while I am with them – and this has allowed me to make the most of that last time I was in their company without their knowledge. One example is with my late Aunt S. On a routine visit to her home, I knew this would be the last time I saw her, even though she appeared to be in very good health. I was then able to take a mental photo of us in that moment to savor for the future. It was also extremely helpful for the future moment when I learned of her passing on – I had been forewarned to the extent that I wasn’t totally caught by surprise and in shock.

What drew you to the study of Personal Prophesy?

This was one of those powerful pullings I get psychically. For a time I was suddenly and almost compulsively drawn to study new methods of card reading without totally understanding why. As soon as I had found Personal Prophecy, I dropped everything else with the knowledge that this was exactly what I had been looking for… and that was correct!

What do you like most about this method of perceiving the future from playing cards?

Personal Prophesy hits the nail on the head, has a bandage for every wound, and has a ray of hope in even the darkest moments.  It is a complete system that is only as limited as the person using it.

What do you feel is most meaningful about Personal Prophesy readings?

Personal Prophesy readings provide tremendous depth in readings and clearly empower the recipient of a reading in many ways.  I feel it is the perfect tool to use for psychics and intuitives.

How might it compare or compliment Tarot readings?

I may be the first person to combine Personal Prophecy with Tarot in readings, and if so, then it is because I saw in this combination the perfect harmony of mundane and spiritual elements in one reading.

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Reading Testimonial

“Throughout my life, whenever I heard about psychics and fortunetellers, I was as cynical as they come. However, after my first reading with John Alan, I became a true convert (as a cosmetic sales veteran for both B2C and B2B business for a major international cosmetics company, let me tell you that you cannot bull**** a bull****er).

In other words, he was extremely accurate without “leading” me or “fishing” for information.  Whether or not you believe in this stuff, one thing I can guarantee is that he will be able to give you clarity, direction, and the ability for true self-reflection and understanding.

In other words, if you are not afraid to face your true self and destiny (ok i know that was a little cliche but I really don’t know how else to say this!!! ), then I would most definitely seek out John Alan for a reading.  Allow yourself to be happily surprised!”

Janice K. (NY, New York)


My Top Five List: Universal psychic insights gained from Personal Prophesy readings

February 12th, 2011

Woman embracing the light of the universeI was asked recently by a reading client who is now learning Personal Prophesy card reading from me how many universal insights I’ve gained from the cards over the years.

It was an extremely easy question to answer:  Tons of them!  This  method of card reading is such a deep, rich well of insight to constantly draw from about life, relationships, ourselves, the world – you name it – that even trying to list them all is a huge challenge.

But if I had to pare them down to a short list of five universal insights that seem the most constant in terms of our daily lives, it would be these:

What we expect to happen and what the cards project will happen are often two entirely different things.

A relationship we’ve been in for quite some time is startlingly perceived to come to an end.  We don’t believe it in that instant, but the cards project it – and it happens.

Things are running smoothly, but the cards suddenly warn of impending financial difficulty and out of the blue,  it happens.

Even something as simple as a well-planned get-together can go awry.  The cards will reveal a sudden change of plans at the last minute.

You may think about such perceptions, “No way, it isn’t possible!” But sure enough, the seemingly impossible happens – just as the cards predicted.

We always have to remember:   Change plays a significant role in our own daily lives and the essence of our own human existence.   Being able to conduct readings and having that precious gift of pre-knowledge when it comes to Change enables us to adjust and adapt, realizing that Change ultimately makes it possible for us to grow.

Everyone deserves forgiveness and the chance for redemption.

Even under the worst circumstances, it’s vital to our own spiritual growth to be able to find a way to extend forgiveness – as difficult as that may be at times.  It can take a huge amount of work on our parts to reach such a point but once we do, we literally set ourselves free.

Personal Prophesy readings are excellent at revealing when someone in our lives is truly sorry, when an apology made is genuine and sincere.  And alternately, those who are only trying to manipulate us into thinking they are sorry and deserving of a second chance.

Real love never dies. Never.

Personal Prophesy readings are mighty clear on this point, that if we’ve loved someone before the breakup and truly meant it, we still love them after that relationship has come to an end – even when the parting is bitter and hurtful.

Or, bottom line, it wasn’t real love at all.  That doesn’t mean we have to be with that person we profess to love; it simply means that we truly love him or her enough to want them to be happy without conditions attached.  Love is simply love.  And it does indeed last forever.

Try to leave the “door” open.

Relationships sometimes end badly.  Friends inadvertently betray us.   Partners fall from grace by making stupid choices. Family members can accidentally cut us right to the quick.

The worst thing we can ever possibly do is turn away so completely that we slam shut an all-important “door” that just might need to be open to lead us toward a new beginning with those we’ve become estranged from in the past.

That means don’t be vindictive.  Don’t be the one responsible for the “death stroke” by violating previous trust by lowering yourself to the level of vengeance.  Hold yourself in check.  Show honor and grace.  The winning move is simply not to play.

Because you choose to keep that ‘door’ open, the future will equally bless you by bringing hurtful individuals back to you – someway, somehow – one day yet to come in the future,  whole-heartedly yearning to make serious amends for past transgressions.  (A proven fact over the years!)

Let your dreams guide you all the way.

No matter what it is you dream of achieving in life, reach high and wide for it.  If you have the drive, the ambition and passion to attain what you dream, the cards will let you know that you can do whatever it is you aspire to accomplish.

Years ago, I wanted to be a newspaper columnist and I became one.  I wanted to write a book about this method and I did. I wanted to be an online personality and AOL made me one as the Psychic Love Doctor. I wanted to share this method of perceiving the future using playing cards with the world and I have.

The path to making these dreams become reality wasn’t easy, not by a long shot – I worked my backside off into the wee hours nightly for a number of years – but it happened. You can accomplish the same with your own ambitions and desires.  All you have to do is let your dreams guide you.  Put one foot in front of the other.  Work hard.  And above all, believe that you can and you will!

My maternal grandmother, who taught me this method, always said: “To dream is to believe…once you believe, all things are possible.”

She was right! Now, let’s see what you can accomplish within the framework of your own life and future, “Once you believe..”


Psychic Awareness: Faith, belief and John Mayer sleeping with his guitar

February 11th, 2011

Singer guitarist John MayerIn today’s fringe-driven world, the more unique and experimental an approach is to just about everything inevitably captures a tremendous amount of notice and attention.

In terms of the most unorthodox of approaches, it works – simply by having faith and believing that it will.

It was a meaningful confirmation to me how crucial this kind of belief is in terms of unique approaches when I found interviews online conducted with John Mayer (famous contemporary bluesy-pop guitar/songwriter) who, by the way, my own musician/composer son, Lance, has always been considered to be a dead ringer for.

Mayer revealed in these interviews how before he made it big, he would sleep every night with his guitar.  He was convinced that doing so would make him a stronger, more creative musician, that his guitar would literally teach him what he needed to learn musically while he was asleep.

I thought, Wow!  Now, here’s a guy who isn’t just driven to succeed through his own desire.  He also understands on a deep, inner level the dynamics of the law of attraction and the abundant power that belongs to the Universe.

And look what happened:   He went from being a starving artist literally living out of his car to reaping the kind of satisfying success that he has to celebrate and enjoy today.

This example of pure faith has a lot to do with Personal Prophesy and the bottom line in readings.

What John Mayer did by sleeping with that guitar and believing it would increase his abilities as a musician is the equivalent of the rest of us going to bed every night believing that the sun will rise in the morning.   We don’t question it, we don’t worry about whether ‘tomorrow’ will come.  We simply have faith and fully believe that it will.

And sure enough, the sun rises.  Tomorrow does come.

Can you imagine what our lives would be like if we brought that same kind of deep faith and belief to our own hopes and dreams?

That sense of faith and belief is what I strive to inspire in all of my card reading clients when I share with them such insights from their cards as:

~ “Real, lasting love is coming to you.”

~ “You are traveling a path that will take you from merely having a job to answering your true calling professionally.”

~  Or even simply, “Soon you won’t be unhappy and hurting any longer.

I’m committed to providing each of my reading clients with these seeds of faith and belief that will enable them to figuratively sleep with that ‘guitar’ in terms of their lives, convinced that it will teach them how to fulfill their deepest hopes and dreams.

By planting those seeds, they will grow and develop into a beautiful new Tomorrow.

You might be wondering, how is this possible to do when a reading recipient is struggling to feel such certainty, experiencing extreme hardship where faith and belief are concerned?

I’ve seen and spoken with enough mental health experts and therapists over the years who have all told me the same thing:   Most who enter the counseling field, regardless of their area of expertise, were drawn to the profession to help themselves better understand and ultimately resolve their own personal innermost struggles.

It makes sense, if you really think about it.  Who wants to visit a counselor or pay a life coach who has never known any hardship in their own lives, never dealt with inter-personal conflict and heartbreak, never experienced failure or suffering?  All they can realistically do is spout their own higher-education book learning.

Mere theories, essentially.

And you’re supposed to draw guidance and cultivate confidence from that?  Hardly.  It’s those who’ve ‘walked the walk’ and even continue to ‘walk the walk’ who are going to be the most compassionate and inspiring while providing realistic counsel to their clients.

Take a good look at your own life.

Examine your own level of commitment to what matters to you, what you hope for, dream of, wish for.  Do you believe and have complete faith that you can achieve all that your heart desires?  Or do you have doubts about your own potential for happiness, love, success and personal fulfillment?

If so, you might consider following in John Mayer’s footsteps.  Maybe it’s time you started sleeping with your own ‘guitar’.


Psychic Love & getting even: When revenge is its own sweet treat

February 9th, 2011

strawberry cheesecakeI generally don’t advocate revenge when I’m conducting readings for clients.

However, there are times when revenge sits front and center in the cards looking as utterly luscious as the world’s best strawberry cheesecake waiting to be devoured.

I admit, I have on occasion provided my clients intuitively with revenge-like strategies I perceived from their Personal Prophesy card readings that would enable them to get an important point across when dealing with others who haven’t treated them quite the way they should and a little payback is in order.

What kind of revenge?  The kind that makes life seem instantly satisfying.  Immediately gratifying.  And even at times, downright  sinfully sweet.   The kind of revenge where you walk away, pulling a tight fist close to your chest as you triumphantly hiss to yourself, “Yessss!”

But let’s not call it ‘revenge’ per se…I prefer to think of it as a little artfully constructed retaliation  – especially when there’s  a specific learning experience for the receiver purposely attached.

For instance:

The kind of retaliation where the cards insist that a lesson in Jealouscide is definitely in order.  For instance, when the fantastic gal you’ve been dating suddenly dumps you in a text message: “Sorry, getting back together with Poindexter. Bye!”   The cards indicate she can’t stand being upstaged, even when appearances are deceiving.  So what do you do?  You make sure she sees you having the time of your life with some major Arm Candy at the very next event both of you will be attending.

If you don’t have a gorgeous female friend who can pose as your amazingly-hot date (a friend she doesn’t know, of course), hire one from a classy escort service.   The jaw-dropping look on her face will be oh-so-worth the expense.   When those text messages start streaming in (and they will), don’t respond. Let her wonder about you.  All.  Night.  Long.

The kind of retaliation where the cards advise you to be aggressively proactive.  For instance, pointedly approaching the boss to review with you the private phone call policy on the job when your so-called ‘mentor’ is within earshot, having chastised you repeatedly for calling your daycare provider when she’s been abusing the phone like crazy with her own personal calls.

Do try to hold back from giving your, ahem, “mentor” an SEG (sh*t eating grin) after the boss pats you on the head and compliments the great job you’re doing.  She got the message.  Oh yeah, big time.

The kind of retaliation where your wife/husband takes you so for granted that the cards inspire you to send yourself a dozen roses with a card attached that reads, “You know I adore you.  Leave that nasty shrew/jerk /loser you married and I will make all of your dreams come true.”

Revel in the jealous rant – and the better treatment – that naturally ensues.

The kind of retaliation where the cards reveal that your best friend is betraying you by tricking her into showing her true self by sharing a huge imaginary “secret” with her that ends up traveling the gossip circuit and comes back to you through other friends.

You can publicly humiliate her or simply walk away, shaking your head in disgust.  Your choice.

Not to mention the many assorted retaliatory-driven sweet treats in between.

Bottom line, when life is giving you lemons, the cards will clearly indicate that you indeed can make lemonade your way – including peeing straight into the pitcher when necessary.

After all, we don’t ever have to accept being at the mercy of anyone doing us wrong.  We have the right to change the angle on just about everything that impacts our lives by using the cards to our benefit in readings.  As long as there’s an important lesson involved…you betcha.

That means, you don’t have to take crap when the cards in your reading clearly say otherwise.  You don’t have to be someone else’s victim or puppet or taken-for-granted dishrag.  You don’t have to live your life on their terms rather than your own.

You can expertly work the situation to your own best advantage and in many instances retaliation of the most meaningful and empowering kind will be your own best weapon.

The cards in readings can – and will – guide you intuitively and effortlessly every step of the way!


My Top Five List: Why I personally dislike the psychic profession

February 1st, 2011

Personal Prophesy Light and InsightAfter being immersed in the psychic and metaphysical world as long as I have, I have to admit that I don’t agree with quite a bit of the profiteering others in this profession use to manipulate the public.

Whether they’re using Tarot cards, crystal balls, teaching meditation, channeling, reiki, aura viewing, metaphysics in general to achieve their particular level of success, I take serious exception to a great deal in terms of their practices.

Here is my top five list of dislikes:

1)  Money-sucking psychic websites

If you’ve ventured online to seek psychic guidance, you’ve no doubt found it’s generally expensive.  Too expensive, if you ask me, considering that you’re dealing with a stranger who may or may not have quality credentials and/or professional integrity.

For instance,  hiring a psychic on Ether.com can run up to $6.50 a minute and more.  That’s outrageous when that individual has no tangible background to rely on.  Or on Keen.com, readings are just as ridiculously priced, from $2.99 a minute to $9.99 a minute.

And there are many more out there just as exorbitantly priced and lacking in what I would call sincere insight and integrity by giving their clients a decent, accurate reading without raping them financially in the process.

Forget about engaging “by the minute” psychic advice – all these so-called “professionals” are doing is trying to lighten  your wallet or gouge your credit card.  You’ll be far better off seeking out those psychic websites where there’s a flat fee involved for your reading.  Google them and you’ll find many.

This website, PsychicLoveDoctor.com, is one of them.

2)  Money-sucking psychics

I don’t care how “gifted” they advertise themselves to be,  no psychic deserves to be paid an exorbitant amount of money for a simple reading.  It doesn’t matter how well-publicized and slickly marketed they may be.  For example, Sylvia Browne charges nearly $800 a reading.

Big deal on any paltry discounts you offer, Sylvia – it’s still way too doggone much money for a reading!  And especially when you consider tucked into the fine points on her website: “The length of time for your reading varies with each individual depending on your questions to a maximum of 30 minutes.  Most readings average between 20 to 30 minutes.”

So to hire Sylvia Browne, who has been proven to be completely wrong on a number of occasions, a 30 minute reading – if she lets your reading run that long – you’d be paying nearly $20 a minute.  Totally outrageous.

Stick within the $25 – $150 range for a detailed psychic reading.  You’re in a far better position to receive a quality reading from a professional psychic with heart and character.  And when psychics you are buying from offer a money-back guarantee of satisfaction as so many do now, more power to you.

3)  Psychics who prey on your curiosity – and your pocketbook – to “learn more” about your future.

Oh, they’re out there  – those who cleverly dangle the bait in the guise of a free psychic reading, only to leave you hanging right at that point where they will eagerly “tell you more” once you go cha-ching and put those lovely big bucks into their bank accounts.

It’s a clever sales hook, people.  There is absolutely nothing ‘free’  or meaningful about those readings.  A large majority of these shysters are using their own stock files over and over again.  You just don’t know it.

Or how about those “free reading” psychics displayed on websites that lure you in like FreePsychicReading.com.  It all looks great – and free – until you read the fine print:  Three minutes are free,  yes – then you’re in that trap of paying $1.99 a minute thereafter.

As if they’re going to tell you anything important in those three free minutes…not! You’re better off hiring a psychic straight-up, one advertising a reasonable flat fee.  A pledge of “satisfaction guaranteed” only seals the deal.

4)  Scammers who disguise themselves as psychics

As soon as you hear the words, “I’m seeing a great curse on your life that I can release you from if you bring me X number of dollars, your jewelry, the heirloom silver you got from Grandma” or anything else of value” – run!

Curses of any kind and sort don’t require money or other valuables to be handed over in order to rid yourself of them because, bottom line, these curse “fighters” are merely attempting to milk you of what you have financially and materially.

You’re dealing with a con artist in these cases, pure and simple.   If you have negative energy perceived by a reputable psychic, he or she will guide you spiritually through meditation and other means to resolve it, without it costing you an arm or a leg (or Grandma’s heirloom silver) in the process.

5)  Metaphysical instructors who teach their subjects way over your head.

To me, the first sign that you haven’t engaged the right training instructor is when you find you can’t grasp a single thing they’re teaching because the language and theory is so far beyond your level of comprehension.

If you don’t understand what you’re being taught, start complaining.  If that doesn’t work, stop paying for the instruction.  Paying with a credit card is helpful in the sense that you can charge back on these fees should you need to. If you’re using PayPal, the great folks behind this website will conduct an investigation on your behalf.

If you’ve paid with your bank debit card,  you don’t have much recourse but to insist that your instructor bring the course down to your level.  If that fails, threaten to make derogatory posts on such websites as RipOffReport.com or Complaints.com as a “buyer beware” message to others.

These posts will show up in search engine results, believe me.  Those running reputable businesses will want to make you happy as a customer.  They want to provide a quality-driven service.  They wouldn’t ever want to risk contributing to their own negative reputation by having their services blasted on such complaint websites.  These posts can – and do – literally last forever.

My advice?

Any time you feel interested in enrolling in a metaphysical course of study, do some thorough research first.  Conduct extensive Google searches to access reviews of the school and/or instructor(s) involved.  Ask others for personal recommendations.  From your own research, you”ll be able to determine if this is the right choice for you.

Personally, I seriously dislike this profession for the reasons given above.

It’s for this reason that I teach the entire first level of Personal Prophesy card reading completely free of charge – so that you and others out there can decide for yourself if learning Personal Prophesy is right for you.  You won’t have to rely on someone else’s psyshic perception to decipher the path that’s most right for you.

If you’d like to learn how to perceive your own future and become your own psychic without ever having to rely on someone else again to lead and guide you from the psychic level, visit my free Psychic Card Reading for Beginners group.

The entire first level of Personal Prophesy Card reading is available on the main page, completely free of charge.


Psychic Love: He cheated! How to get him back as a better man

January 28th, 2011

Face of woman who was cheated onJust when you think you’ve got the Relationship of the Century going with a wonderful guy, what happens?

You find out he cheated on you.

Maybe he got drunk at a strip club with his buddies and had sloppy sex with one of the nameless strippers in the shadows of the club.  Or he deliriously jumped the bimbo who slithered out of the cake at a wild booze-drenched bachelor party.

He made an ass out of himself, definitely.  You can’t excuse such a breach in behavior, certainly.

You might be able to let him off the hook after a week or two of beating him to death verbally for such drunken stupidity.  Or maybe the relationship wasn’t quite “solid” enough when it happened that you both realize you need to sit down and define boundaries as a result of his “Jesus-Christ-was-I-drunk-last-night” debauchery.

That can be a very good thing.

What hurts right to the core is when he consciously cheats even when there are already defined relationship boundaries.

With an old girlfriend or someone he works with.   Maybe even someone you know or work with.  This man, the one you’ve pinned your hopes and dreams to for the future, the one you’ve invested your heart and soul in, has outright and undeniably betrayed you – putting a great big horrible stake in your heart.

The instant you discover the truth, you tell him in no uncertain words, “Hit the road, you cheating so-and-so!” (or words to that effect) and you mean it as you savagely slam the door behind him to get the point across as he abruptly exits your life.

Trouble is, you love that man.  You hate that you love him but the bottom line is – you still do.

What happens?  Your heart aches endlessly in the aftermath of his departure.  As you grieve intensely over this broken relationship, you find yourself constantly spinning emotionally toward bitterness, jealousy and hatred.  But you hold yourself in check.

A very wise thing to do.

As the cards never fail to insist when I conduct Personal Prophesy readings for those deeply hurt by cheating in romantic relationships, the worst step you can ever take is to impulsively burn that bridge between you and the one you love, driven by your own bitterness, jealousy and pain.

After all, you have no idea how you will feel in a month, three months, a year from now.  You have no idea what the future holds as far as the two of you are concerned.  Circumstances change, people change.  Sometimes the most important change comes from a partner having to learn a huge lesson emotionally the hard way.

The cards, more times than not, reveal that men who cheat on meaningful relationships don’t realize how much these relationships really matter to them – until it’s too late.  These men are, intuitively, on a significant path toward maturity and achieving deep understanding as a result of their cheating.

A man the cards reveal to hold a tremendous amount of  potential to become a better man as a result of this grievous error in judgment toward you is indeed a man worthy of a second chance when the time is right.  He’s a man who will love you the way you want to be loved – if you give him time to take the journey he needs to take to become the man you need him to be.

Personal Prophesy readings always insist that the best relationships are those that have met and conquered severe challenges.

Think about it:  Relationships that have never known any kind of conflict or hardship may seem like great relationships superficially, but when we’re in these relationships, we realistically have no idea how strong or resilient they really are.

These seemingly wonderful relationships run as smooth as a ribbon of silk, but they are actually as fragile as glass because they’ve never been tested by any kind of serious hardship or conflict.  On the other hand, relationships that travel a rough and rocky road where love still somehow manages to prevail – these are relationships of genuine substance and meaning.

The cards will reveal they are relationships worth fighting for and investing in – relationships that have been tested most severely and ultimately survive that test.

In view of that perception, when you’ve discovered that your man has cheated on you, should you:

Angrily throw his clothes out in the trash or litter them on the lawn in front of your apartment?

Why, when you can instead show yourself as a much bigger person by folding his clothes into a box or suitcase and offering to deliver it to his apartment with a great deal of civility on your part.  Chances are, he’ll want to come by and pick his things up himself.

Still, the gesture on your part is full of decency and restraint.  He’ll be awestruck by the amount of class on your part.   Count on it.

Call him incessantly to viciously condemn and curse at him for hurting you the way he did?

Sure, if you want to send the message that you are just another nasty bitch he’ll be glad to get rid of, justifying his infidelity.  Instead, force yourself to simply walk away in silence and leave him to his own guilt-driven demons.  It helps to focus on reciting the last two lines of Phyllis McGinley’s poem, A Choice of Weapons as often as you need to:   “Words can sting like anything but silence breaks the heart.”

Literally turn that silence on your part into your own personal religion.

He will learn far more about his tragic error in judgment from your silence and restraint than he ever would from being bitched at and having his clothing thrown to the wind.  Trust me on this from the years I’ve dealt with my own male card reading clientele.  Ninety-nine percent of these men ultimately realize how much they lost dearly in the process.

Revel in the sordid re-telling of all his secrets, weaknesses and transgressions to your friends?

If you have any character at all, you won’t.  It’s far better to take the high road by not allowing yourself to fall into this trap.  All you do is set everybody in your life up to really hate this guy if the two of you ever should decide to try to work things out and reconcile at a future time.  Best advice:  Just plain don’t.

Bite your tongue, refuse to speak ill of him as long as there is a tiny shred of love in your heart for that man.  Should the two of you get back together at some future point, bystanders in your life will not forget the dirt you shoveled in the aftermath of the breakup, trust me.

Go out with his male friends just to make him jealous?

You didn’t act like a slut during the relationship, why start now?  Think about it:   This ploy is so  ‘high school’ and so ‘not you’ – why would you ever want to make yourself suddenly seem incredibly shallow and immature?  You should only – and I do mean, only – go out with his male friends if they were strictly platonic friends prior to the breakup and you keep it that way after the breakup.

To encourage his male friends to think you are interested romantically or to lure any of them to your bed out of vengeance toward him does nothing but make the situation worse for all involved.  And you really only make yourself look terribly ridiculous in the long run.

Beg him to come back after you’ve thrown him out because you’re suddenly feeling lonely?

No, no, no! You took a strong stance about his infidelity and it’s crucial to the relationship the two of you could come to share one day in the future that you remain strong in that stance.  I can’t stress this enough.

Do not call him, email him or text him.  Absolutely no contact is critical.  You’ve got to make him need you.  If he comes too quickly and easily without the kind of deep remorse and commitment to change that you deserve from him, quietly refuse his overture.

It may be 3am and he’s standing outside your door looking so sad and forlorn in the rain, but if he hasn’t come to you for the right reasons, softly say, “I’m sorry, but no,” and gently close the door.

Make that man miss you and long for you from the deepest part of his heart.  Don’t settle for anything less.

Remember…Love is the one constant in our lives.

Love transcends stupid errors in judgment and angry reprisals.  While the head gets caught up in logical and linear thinking, the heart is an organ of simplicity that only knows what it feels.

It’s definitely possible to achieve a better, more meaningful and lasting relationship after the hurt and despair caused by infidelity.  The cards can be extremely instrumental to let us know when that man who has fallen from grace is truly sorry and ready.  Ready to make amends.  Ready to commit to an honest, lasting relationship and give the very best of himself.

When it comes to men who have cheated, the cards will clearly reveal those relationships that can and will survive no matter what, simply because they want to be better men as a result of the lessons they learned having to live without you.

Trust me on this!


Psychic Awareness: Getting ‘over’ at work while feeling screwed?

January 26th, 2011

woman looking at pile of office file foldersIt never fails when I’m conducting a reading for a client who feels victimized by coworkers or the boss on the job.

He or she sees themselves as screwed.

Screwed because coworkers just plain don’t like them.  Screwed because the boss is a severe taskmaster who the client perceives would just as soon kick him or her to the curb for the slightest error in judgment.

Screwed because they know they aren’t performing up to standard by their own estimation.

Yet Personal Prophesy card readings will reveal an entirely different scenario about the client and his/her job.

The reading will clearly indicate that the client has tremendous potential that is barely being tapped at that particular work place.

Personal Prophesy readings are extremely precise when it comes to “where” we are and “where” we should be.  Just because we choose to take a job doesn’t mean we’re working within the realm of our own true potential.

Personal Prophesy will unequivocally let you know when you are merely doing the “9 to 5″ dance for a job and not answering your own true professional calling.

Naturally coworkers are unfriendly.  Of course, the boss is a tyrant and you feel utterly screwed.

Why?

Because you’re not living up to your true potential, silly – by taking a path toward the future in that particular occupation which is not leading toward your own true personal and professional fulfillment!

Yes, it is that simple.

Here’s the thing that clients have such difficulty grasping when they request readings about their work.  A job is a job.  It pays the bills.  You have no choice but to take the guff, the crap, the outright abuse you’re dealt on a daily basis.

But when you’re engaged in a calling that leads to a serious career, there is no crap, no guff, no abuse.  A door opens and then another and another.  Visualize yourself as Dorothy from the “Wizard of Oz” when she opens that door inside her black and white house and steps out into a world filled with rich, beautiful color.

That’s how answering your own professional calling will feel.  You find yourself feeling so fulfilled and satisfied, meshing effortlessly with your coworkers and bosses that it’s practically an orgasmic experience.

You know what?  That’s when you are working and living up to your true potential.  The cards will guide you every step of the way to achieve that goal.

So how to ‘get over’ at work when you think you’re screwed?

Bottom line, you really can’t.  You’ve pushed your round self into a square hole, and the only answer is to push yourself out of that hole.  Or you simply force yourself to accept a miserable existence in your working life, day after day after…you get the picture.

But life doesn’t have to be that way – if you are receptive to change, allowing yourself to embrace a new future, the one you truly want for yourself.

First, let Personal Prophesy guide you to the occupation that truly sets your hair on fire.

The one that fills you with passion.  The one you know from the bottom of your heart is your true calling in life.

I have clients who are doing magical things with their lives because they listened to the intuitive prophesy of the cards. They are living their dreams career-wise today.

You can, too.

Second, sometimes we find ourselves settling when we should be striving for more.

When we find ourselves in a stifling, unforgiving work environment, where is it written that we have to settle for that?

It’s important to realize you are not where you should be and to start looking elsewhere for more than a job; rather a career path that truly fulfills you.

Clients of mine who abandoned such stifling jobs are now designers, lawyers, actors, writers, entrepreneurs and more – because the cards guided them out of  the rut of unsatisfying jobs.

Third, believe in yourself and let yourself be who you want to be!

Why shouldn’t you be pursuing your own deepest, most cherished dreams?

Stop and think for a minute.  Why are you in this world?  To merely waste your life away pounding rocks together to bring home a paycheck – or are you here to advance mankind, celebrate your creative energy and bring fulfillment to your own spirit?

If you’re prone to think it’s “all about a paycheck” and hate what you do, I’m sorry to say you are plainly screwed.  Chances are you always will be, forced to live an unfulfilled existence while being subjected to unfriendly coworkers and tyrannical bosses.

Fact:  You will always be at the mercy of those who lord over you with authority – unless you do something about it!

Can you really enjoy a new way of life where you get up everyday, eager to go to work?

Yes, you can!  As Personal Prophesy card readings  have guided countless others out of dead-end jobs toward answering their own true calling in life and are today so successful as a result, it’s up to you to have that kind of faith in yourself.

Start by realizing you are the creator of your own reality.

You are precisely where you are because you chose to put yourself there.  Once you decide to put one foot forcefully in front of the other toward a new future – the future you truly deserve – you’ll find it.  I guarantee it.

You won’t feel screwed any longer.


Psychic Celebrity: Demi and Ashton and the whole Brittany Jones conundrum

September 18th, 2010

Demi Moore and Ashton KutcherFirst, let’s get one thing straight.

Whether or not Ashton cheated or Ashton and Demi have a “don’t ask, don’t tell” open marriage arrangement enabling them to do as they wish sexually with others isn’t the heart of the situation.

Frankly, it’s how cheap and callously Brittney Jones shared with the media what could have – and should have – remained private.

Something is happening these days where women in the public eye (or those merely wanting to be in the public eye) are stooping to an incredibly low standard.

Marketing sex tapes.   Getting arrested in barroom brawls.  Emotional and financial extortion.  Broadcasting what may or may not be true.

What these women who are so obviously acting out of a sense of narcissism,rage or their own stupidity don’t understand is they are only living up to every negative assertion that has ever been expressed or believed about their own gender.

Why they would want to portray themselves as publicity sluts and whores, I can only attribute to narcissistic thinking, rage or sheer brainlessness on their parts.  Aside from the publicity and the money-making machine that results, the bottom line is they come off looking like real losers.

As is the case, I perceive with Brittney Jones, who Star Magazine first reported:

The brunette Demi look-alike — who you’ll see only in Star — says that she met Ashton in July while bowling at Lucky Strike Lanes in Hollywood. Although the That ’70s Show star was there with Demi, his stepdaughter Rumer Willis and some other friends, it didn’t stop him from swooping in and striking up a conversation with the young woman, who was sitting at a cocktail table.

Although the woman admits she knew Ashton was there with Demi, that didn’t stop her from slipping him her number on a cocktail napkin when he was getting ready to go. But little did she know that just days later she’d be having sex with Ashton on a sofa in the house he shares with Demi and her daughters!

“I felt totally comfortable in his arms,” she tells Star. “It was tender and nice — not some random sex act.”

My perception is that Brittney doesn’t give a care about Ashton, Demi or even herself.  After all, the girl has posed nude and even has a sex tape herself to market.

Her own cards reveal her to be just another fame whore, in plain English.

In my perception, she’s getting her 15 minutes and once those 15 minutes are up, she’ll be slinking back to the gutter she came from.

As for Demi, she’s perceived in the cards to be putting on a fabulous ‘game face’ right now but she’s cringing and literally dying inside from the glare of the media spotlight.  She clearly wants Jones to simply shut the hell up.  But that isn’t going to happen.  Jones is on a roll and determined to play this juicy tidbit of scandal out for all it’s worth.

As for Ashton,  my perception is that he couldn’t be more sorry for this tragic turn of events.  He realizes he’s playing a loser’s game in that no matter how many cards he plays, he’s going to find his way into the dumper.  And he’s right.

The only – and I do mean, only – thing he has going for himself as this scandal runs its course is that Demi truly wants to stay married to him.  Yes, she feels extreme disappointment and grief over Ashton’s severe poor judgment and how she finds herself suffering such embarrassment publicly.  Still, in her heart of hearts she wants to make a new start with Ashton and put this sordid experience behind her.

Will that happen?  My perception is as a result of reading both Demi and Ashton’s cards that they will find their way clear of this horrible debacle.  Their marriage will be restored to an even keel.  What troubles me is that I don’t feel Ashton truly has his head screwed on straight nor has he achieved the right level of maturity for that new start to really stick in terms of their marriage.

The cards indicate that he will be caught openly cheating again in the future and when it happens, my perception is that Demi will throw in the towel completely on this marriage to spend a period of time on her own.

In time, she’ll find herself in a new relationship with a man of true maturity with far better judgment.